Tuesday, 5 January 2016

Happiness





Do things that makes you happy -Anonymous

I heart this quote.
I love it.
I live with it.
I am the quote.

The story is that i am effing stubborn
If i say A, I FREAKING MEAN A. 
Not A1 or A4. Just A.

So that's why i live with that quote. 
Everytime people forces me to do something i dislike, i'll be chanting this quote in my heart and finally, thru my mouth. Sorry but not sorry.

Although i am liddat, i can negotiate at some part of my life. Because i do have soft spots for some condition. 
E.g. i cannot stand people who pleads with a puppy face or... well thats just it. 
Im just negotiable with people who pleads LOL 

Throughout the previous december, i've been going through a major process of making decisions.

From post spm plans to uni choices. 
God, its hard.
With pressure.
And people around me not giving support.
It's hard. 
But alhamdulillah, i've went thru that phasee as soon as i stepped into 2016.

 Kinda not burdened anymore.
Life decisions are the worst.
 Wow, i'm speaking like an adult now.

 Oh are here are some tips to survive a mind- wrecking- decision- making phase from a humble me

 1- Talk to Allah. 
 Make tons of du'as. Do istikharah if you may. Make sure your heart is at peace

 2- Talk to human beings.
 To the person you trust. To the person you know will lift your spirit up. To the person who is positively motivational. To the person you love.

 3- Make a pros and cons list
 This is great. I did it and it was worth it. You can see the layout clearly and surely easier for you to make desicions.

 4- Be happy and optimistic with your final decision. Have lots of tawakkal and be at peace. 

 And there's that. I hope this will be useful for you there reading this and for me in the future.


Lotsa love,
 샤히다

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