Push it aside and go on with it.

Assalamualaikum dear silent readers *as if there are :p*

*writing while dusting the habuk2*

So how is your iman and health ?
Hope both of them are great !
And oh ya, how is your ramadhan going on ? Cool enough eh ?
If it is not, well, there are 2 days left, you know. So get up from your lazy chair of yours
and go do some good deeds ! You will feel happy and satisfied enough !

See up there ? That long title of mine.
What is suppose to be pushed aside and what is with the going on part ?
Well, today's post will mostly about friendship i guess.

I've been through some matters, and I thought of sharing it and how i solved it fabulously !

Push the jealousy and the 'sakit hati' aside  and go on with your relationship.
Cos you'll sure regret it in the future if you dont do so . 

Why ?
Because if it is not you who sacrifices your feelings, who will ?
Sometimes, when it comes to friendship and family,
someone has to give up for the others sake. 
Yeah, it totally hurts. But at least, you've made an heroic step! Thumbs up of yourself :)

I had a small yet serious silent fight with my friend of mine, and i felt,

 " ohh, me is hurt. you hurt my feelings and now you say that me hurt yours !? "

HEH. both sides think that they are right. who doesn't right ?
 *skip all the cakap2 belakang and mad situation*

So, after a few weeks,
It was her birthday, and actually, we were already fine. We were always fine. It is just,
a small misunderstanding and we were both mad at each other in silent. heh.

So, it was her birthday.. and  i didn't wanted to prolong our misunderstanding situation,
and although i was still hurt and felt like crying every time is see her walking and laughing with her new bestie,
i made up my mind and said to myself,
" enough is enough. push it aside and lets just get along with it. let her be what she wants to be "

And with the help and courage of my forever best friend Syamaa and Iffah,
I  'stood up ' and faced the problem like a man.

 

Well people say, think like a lady, walk like a lady but act like a man. 

meaning, do something strong and positive, stop whining and just be strong in every situation.

Me and Syama gave her a cute handmade card with photos of her inside it, just to remind her
our fun, cheerful days before all of this happened.

And since that day, i guess she was touched and we got along and eventhough i havent recieve a proper
sorry from her,  and eventhough i'm still hurt, I think this is the best way to end it.

:)

That's all. Thanks for reading folks !
Have a great 2 -day -ramadhan and Eid Mubarak to all of youu !
Sorry for any wrong doings.
peace no war yo!